An agony letter

At one point of another, I do feel a tinge of sympathy for outdoor sales persons.
Be it you are selling tissues, tickets or any companies' products.
No matter how kind or innocent you appear to be, you will be treated with coldness.And that is just the lightest treatment.
Come to think of it, everyone is just making a living.


My personal opinion is that you CAN go far in sales but it really depends on what kinda products or services that you are doing.
You can't upgrade your standard of living if you are forever selling products like Osim.
Eventually it is the CEOs of Osim that earn, not you.

Back to sales, I especially dislike persistent sales personnel.
That is no doubt one of the characteristic that all sales persons must have.
But I believe in what we called the sales ethnics as well.

I, myself am one foot in the sales industry and the other foot in human resource.
What I feel is that at the end of the day, you do not and shouldn't gain sales through forcing. (Yes, soft forcing or hard on war is a BAD MORAL!)
You can do all you can, but if you can't hook the fish don't force it. (Or the whole sea will condemn you.)
If no interest is shown, leave it.
I'm such person. I destest to be forced on. If I am interested, I will bite the bait. If I am not, you probably wont hear from me.

Now quit beating around the bush.
I think it was only last Friday??My friend brought her damn irritating bro-in law to my house, UNINVITED AND UNWELCOME!
Say 'Oops, they did it again...last night!"

I was back with my mum from Bishan. I didn't even step in my house and I already hear their voices inside.
Can you imagine how my parents feel?And I hate it when they tried to involve my family!
At that point of time, I wonder how to contact the terrorists?I badly wanna get rid of them no matter how.

I am seldom the blunt nor insensitive type.
They pushed me to it yesterday.
My first sentence was,"Why you never make an appointment before coming?!"And my tone was never friendly.I almost wanna chase them out with the parang.

All the time I keep on emphasizing how much of uninterest that me and my family have for such kinda products as well as MLM.
I even tried to be nice and said things like should I or anyone I know ever need their products/services, I will give them a ring.
But really FUCKing HELL!That guy never learns to draw the line and I was boiling mad!

Hey I dont wanna use that F word here,man!Infact I wanted to refrain as much as possible to curse in this year.
But the moment that they leave, I point my finger at their backs.
It was damn mean,I agree, but I was AM damn pissed!

And he even said he will come another time!
Fucking bugger!
I hate to be disturbed and more so if my family is involved for nothing!

Hey I hate to turn my back on our friendship but I swear if there is another "house visit", I will find it hard to even call her a friend.
It is just so upsetting eventually.

In the first place,I dont think it is nice of a FRIEND to use our relationship and manipulates it!
If I let myself into their services, whose good it is to eventually?
Whose money is gonna be credit and debit?
Fuck!Don't tell me the blardy nonsenses,I am not soft anymore ok.
I am once,twice and even more for the sake of our friendship but what the fuck you treat me for?!

I don't wanna do this,trust me.
I hate to think of the day whereby I will totally ignore her and think of the good times painfully.
Maybe I am taking this with more than a big spoonful of salt,but I am truely unhappy about how this whole thing plays. (And I am damn defensive about my family!)

God....
I feel that this is stupid.
I don't wanna get to this and I don't want anything bad to come outta it eventually.
I just hope that she will get the heavy signal from last night and really will not come to disturb me and my family along with her brother in law~
Trust me, I truely hope that she will be happy what she is doing but I do not want what she chose to do cause me unhappiness and straining our relationship.
I dont wanna be the ruthless one and cut things with a blunt knife.

I just hope this will end and no more until then....


Love,
Ling